An unplanned pregnancy can stir up intense emotions. Sometimes, these emotions are positive, but other times, these emotions are not what you expected.
If you are currently navigating an unplanned pregnancy and are concerned about how your partner will handle the news, this blog is for you.
Below are a few ways to create a safe communication plan during your pregnancy and where to find support for the days ahead.
Gather Information About Your Pregnancy
Before you share your pregnancy news with your partner, gathering information about your pregnancy and the options available is essential.
Have an ultrasound to understand critical details about your pregnancy. An ultrasound will confirm if your pregnancy is progressing and if there are any medical complications present that might harm your health.
Once your pregnancy’s health has been confirmed, take some time to explore your three options: parenting, adoption, and abortion. Educating yourself on the details will allow you to make a confident and informed decision in the days ahead.
How to Share Your News
If you’re afraid of how your partner might react to your unplanned pregnancy, making a plan to share your news is critical.
Decide What To Say
First, plan ahead for what you want to share. Write down exactly how you’re feeling and what you desire for your pregnancy.
Remember, the decision on how to handle your unplanned pregnancy is ultimately up to you, not your partner. Beginning the conversation after you have decided which path to take can give you peace and confidence.
Decide Where To Share The News
Choose a location that is comfortable and safe when sharing your pregnancy news with your partner. If you’re concerned your partner may respond violently, be sure to have the conversation in a public space like a cafe or coffee shop.
If you are in an abusive relationship, you deserve support. The National Domestic Violence Hotline provides 24/7 help and resources. We can also help you find assistance and offer emotional support.
We Can Help
Your feelings, questions, concerns, and desires matter. Birthright of Atlanta is here to provide women with the support they need for an unplanned pregnancy.
We’re here to help you talk it out, to make a plan, and to navigate your unplanned pregnancy with clarity and confidence.
Call 770-451-2273 to schedule an appointment or to simply let us know you’re on the way.